There are three things u can do to keep ur husband, no matter what. The three of them require a lot of work and sacrifice
One is his food. Give him his food without his asking. Men eat wit two distinct mouths. The visible mouth that u know and the other mouth (his penis). Feed him @ least every other day. Cooking food may not be difficult but I know offering sex might be very difficult. U might not always be in the mood. But make it part of ur house chores and make up ur mind to enjoy it. U might not always be in the mood but wen u remember that ur marriage is based on that, I think u will be forced into the mood. Men love women that ask them for sex. Men also love women that beg them to eat food
The second thing is 1 Timothy 2:11-12
11 A woman should learn in silence with full submission.
12 I do not allow a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; instead, she is to be silent.
But she will be saved through childbearing, if she continues in faith, love, and holiness, with good judgment.
* Have a lot of faith in ur husband, show him that u believe in him, trust him; men love women they can easily deceive. So become his mugu. Even wen u know its possible he is lying, believe him and show him u believe him. He might start with lying to you but he CANNOT continue to lie to u
* Love him and show him u love him. Go the extra mile to show that. Somethings, it might not be easy but it sure pays off wit time
* Make up ur mind to be holy unto him. He is the God u can see. God is his head, he is ur HEAD. Adore him as much as u will adore God. These are difficult things to do, it might take u time to master them but they sure pay off
* U need good judgement for him. Don’t judge him by the standards of other men, he is not other men, he is UR MAN!! Very important. Don’t compare him and any other person. Don’t even compare him and ur father! If u want him to be or behave like ur father, u should have as well married ur father. Don’t try to change him. Those things u want to change are the things that attracted you to him. Love the way he is. Find ways u can help sharpen who he is not ways to change who he is.
The third thing u need to keep ur husband is prayer.
Pray without ceasing. The continued unity of the home depends on how prayerful u are. His success at his work place depends on how well u can pray. If he is not succeeding at work, he will play out his frustration on you. Pray as if ur life depends on it bc truely, ue life depends on it.